July 2011
“A woman is … No matter how common she is, she can be a queen. No matter how noble she is, she can be a maid. Depending on how she is treated by the man whom she loves.”
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[photo via ikebaha]
I like men in plaid
and I like men in ties.
I love men in plaid ties.
Nicee
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omg you guys feminism is so ~*~*irrelevant*~*~
Jesus motherfucking Christ. This is miserable.
God. I’ll say it again. Women, please don’t sleep with this kind of man. They are beneath you. If a man doesn’t like your body, he can take his lazy ass out the door and try to trick someone else into putting up with his childish bullshit.
Or, if you’re Korean, or at least one of the ones I’ve dated, apparently simply pipe up with
“Wow you have a big [insert even slightest bit flabby body part here]!” :/
I dunno. when you’re in a long term relationship isn’t it okay to discuss health with your partner? I gained a bunch of weight last year due to some meds I was on for my Crohn’s disease. I mean it’s not like my partner said I was fat, but he could tell I was unhappy and he was on board when I wanted to get rid of snacks and asked him to help me help myself by cooking healthier and eating smaller portions. He also started to make these changes in his life as well.(he needs to because although he isn’t big, he isn’t fit and the way he eats carbs/sugar I worry, seriously worry about diabetes for him.)
I don’t really think all of these methods, like shaming someone for asking for more food if they are hungry. But sometimes when we eat, I ask him if he’ll wait a half hour with me to see if we’re REALLY hungry or if we just think we want some because it tastes good. Usually we still want more ;)
Anyways, I guess if I hadn’t known my bf for as long as I do then maybe I wouldn’t be comfortable talking about diet and health with him. But at the same time, when you’re spending years together, and you think, omg that person that I love is developing/has unhealthy habits and I’m worried that they will not be around for long… I think you do what you can.
reminiscing
Don’t waste your touch
You won’t feel anything
Or were you sent to save me?
I’ve fought too much
You won’t find anything
Worthy of redeeming.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
As I… walked away, heard them say
“Poisoned hearts will never change”
Walked away again
Turned away in disgrace
Felt the chill upon my face cooling from within
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
There is poetry in despair and we sang with unrivaled beauty
Bitter elegies of savagery and eloquence
Of blue and grey
Strange, we ran down desperate streets and carved our names
In the flesh of the city
Perfectly simple,
simply perfect
take XXIII.
Kelly Ripa // July 26
A little bit of color goes a long way.
Except the hat [I never wear hats] this is great~ <3
Tension Headaches?
So… I get them a lot. I used to go to a chiropractor in Canada and he’d snap, crackle, and pop my neck and it would be all good.
Without that maintenance I’m dying over here! What should I do?
Another question for the internets: Well more specifically people who moved to Korea, but used to live in drier climates. How do you drink enough water to stay hydrated? I am finding it incredibly hard to drink enough water. I can get to my usual 2L per day but it doesn’t seem to be enough now that I sweat out my existence every day. What do you guys do?
I seriously fucking HATE banking in Korea. They only keep hours that EVERYONE ELSE WHO HAS A JOB WOULD BE WORKING DURING. So you’re thinking. So what, just get internet banking. Okay. Let me give the FORTY THOUSAND PASSWORDS YOU NEED. Oh and every. EVERY. Single. Time. You. Enter. Your. Password. EVERY TIME. EVEN IF IT IS LETTER BY FUCKING LETTER. It will tell you it is incorrect AT LEAST 3 times before letting you go to the next part.
WHAT THE FUCK KOREA. Everywhere else in the world you just set it up at the bank. Go to the banks website. Enter your debit card number and the password they gave you at the bank. Change your password. SET FOR LIFE. EASY.
Also everywhere else when you make a bill payment you can save that shit. no no we like to add that in EACH AND EVERY FUCKING MONTH. It says there is an option for commonly used accounts but when I click it nothing is in there ???
I dunno. I’m just stressed because I set out to transfer money home and pay my bills today and it took me almost an hour and a half. I have cried in frustration at this point because I don’t even fucking get why it decided it wouldn’t send my fucking money. Like fine, I WONT PAY MY BILLS THEN! garg. I still have to go pay my internet manually because I can’t figure out where the info I need is on the bill. So whatever.
Also what the fuck is up with the annoying thing trying to make me LOG OUT every 5 minutes. I can understand it if I wasn’t being active on the page, but I’m literally typing in numbers and it tries to LOG ME OUT! WTF. Seriously. If Shinhan was a person, I would have beat them to death by now. With my computer.
Anyways just a rant about how retarded banking is here. It isn’t easy. Fuck what eatyourkimchi says. It isn’t easy, it sucks compared to Canada. It’s cheaper. But I’d rather pay more money to get a service that is convienient than deal with this shit every month. Like I know that I will cry. So I have to set aside an afternoon to do it where I wont need to be in a rush. Isn’t that ridiculous? In Canada I could just log on from my iPhone and make a payment ANYWHERE. I didn’t need a million passwords and a card with numbers all over it that will one day run out and I’ll somehow need to make it to the bank during my work hours to get a new one.
Whatever. I’m over it.
Ughhh… I actually have to sit here, by myself, all day. with an air conditioner that is blowing HOT air. I mean today I actually have some things I can do. But tomorrow. and the next day. and the next day. oiii.
I realize I’m getting paid to be here. But I am the type of person who would rather be a little less rich to enjoy my free time a little more thoroughly.
Whatever. Once I run out of real work, it’s gossip girls, my new Jane Austen book (yes I’m only just reading it now!), and studying Korean. Although maybe not in that order, but probably.
Also, on a side note unrelated to anything, the cicadas here in Seoul sound cuter than in Daejeon/Daegu. They sound like in Harvest Moon and other Japanese video games. wweeewooowoo woo… okay they don’t sound like that but you know, that rhythm. In Daejeon/Daegu, they just sounded like they were screaming. It was freaky as fuck.
